The Best Motivator

True Leader, A

Abraham Ronny Setiawan — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 06:01:13 +0000

by: Martin L. Johnson, Chicken Soup for the Soul at Work

A few years ago, Pioneer Hi-Bred International, where I was employed, purchased Norand Corporation. Pioneer’s sales representatives in the field used Norand hand-held terminals to upload daily sales information and download new price and sales incentive information. Pioneer bought so many of these hand-held terminals, the economics made the purchase of Norand look interesting. Owning Norand also allowed Pioneer to explore high-technology markets outside agriculture.

But after a few years, the emerging laptop PC technology made the hand-held units obsolete. Pioneer sold Norand at a loss. Pioneer always took a given percent of the annual profits to divide equally among all employees, so our profit-sharing checks were lower than if Pioneer had not purchased Norand. Additionally, my Pioneer stock was lower than it had been before the purchase of Norand. I was not pleased.

The CEO of Pioneer, Tom Urban, made annual formal visits to each of the Pioneer divisions to talk about the state of the business and to listen to employees’ concerns. When he walked into the meeting room for his first visit after the sale of Norand, he acknowledged the group, removed his jacket and neatly folded it across the back of the chair. He loosened his tie, undid his collar and rolled up his sleeves. The next thing he said was the last thing I ever expected to hear a CEO say.

He said, “I made a mistake buying Norand and I am sorry. I am sorry your profit-sharing was lower because of the purchase, and I am sorry your stock was hurt by the purchase. I will continue to take risks, but I am a bit smarter now, and I will work harder for you.” The room was quiet for a moment before he asked for questions.

A great man and leader stood before us that day. As I sat listening to him, I knew I could trust him, and that he deserved every bit of loyalty I could give to him and to Pioneer. I also knew I could take risks in my own job.

In the brief moment of silence before the questions started, I recall thinking that I would follow him into any battle.

A MOTHER’S LOVE

Abraham Ronny Setiawan — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:58:20 +0000

A little boy came up to his mother in the kitchen one evening while she was fixing supper, and handed her a piece of paper that he had been writing on. After his Mom dried her hands on an apron, she read it, and this is what it said:

For cutting the grass: $5.00
For cleaning up my room this week: $1.00
For going to the store for you: $.50
Baby-sitting my kid brother while you went shopping: $.25
Taking out the garbage: $1.00
For getting a good report card: $5.00
For cleaning up and raking the yard: $2.00
Total owed: $14.75

Well, his mother looked at him standing there, and the boy could see the memories flashing through her mind. She picked up the pen, turned over the paper he’d written on, and this is what she wrote:

For the nine months I carried you while you were growing inside me:
No Charge

For all the nights that I’ve sat up with you, doctored and prayed for you:
No Charge

For all the trying times, and all the tears that you’ve caused through the years:
No Charge

For all the nights that were filled with dread, and for the worries I knew were ahead:
No Charge

For the toys, food, clothes, and even wiping your nose:
No Charge

Son, when you add it up, the cost of my love is:
No Charge.

When the boy finished reading what his mother had written, there were big tears in his eyes, and he looked straight at his mother and said, “Mom, I sure do love you.” And then he took the pen and in great big letters he wrote: “PAID IN FULL”.

A MOTHER'S LOVE

Lessons:

You will never how much your parents worth till you become a parent
Be a giver not an asker, especially with your parents. there is a lot to give, besides money.

Advice: IF your mom is alive and close to you, give her a big kiss and ask her for forgiveness. If she is far away, call her. if she passed away, pray for her.

Famous Quote

Abraham Ronny Setiawan — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 04:38:07 +0000

People only see what they are prepared to see.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.

Thich Nhat Hahn

Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it.

Dennis P. Kimbro

People are just about as happy as they make up their minds to be.

Abraham Lincoln

We never know until we try it.

Abraham Ronny Setiawan

Count Your Blessings

Abraham Ronny Setiawan — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 08:54:04 +0000

Bless You

I’ve never made a fortune,
and it’s probably too late now.
But I don’t worry about that much,
I’m happy anyhow.

And as I go along life’s way,
I’m reaping better than I sowed.
I’m drinking from my saucer,
‘Cause my cup has overflowed.

Haven’t got a lot of riches,
and sometimes the going’s tough.
But I’ve got loving ones all around me,
and that makes me rich enough.

I thank God for his blessings,
and the mercies He’s bestowed.
I’m drinking from my saucer,
‘Cause my cup has overflowed.

I remember times when things went wrong,
My faith wore somewhat thin.
But all at once the dark clouds broke,
and the sun peeped through again.

So Lord, help me not to gripe,
about the tough rows I have hoed.
I’m drinking from my saucer,
‘Cause my cup has overflowed.

If God gives me strength and courage,
When the way grows steep and rough.
I’ll not ask for other blessings,
I’m already blessed enough.

And may I never be too busy,
to help others bear their loads.
Then I’ll keep drinking from my saucer,
‘Cause my cup has overflowed.

When I think of how many people
in this world have it worse than I do.
I realize just how blessed most of us really are.

Put 1st Thing First

Abraham Ronny Setiawan — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 10:55:02 +0000

A professor stood in front of the philosophy class and had some items in front of his desk.

Put 1st thing First

When the class began, without saying a word, he took an empty mayonnaise jar and began to fill with golf balls.
Then he said to his disciples, whether the jar was full. They agreed.
Then he took a box of coral stone and poured it into the jar. He shook lightly. Coral rocks in, fill the empty places between the golf balls.
Then he asked his disciples, whether the jar was full. They agreed that the jar was full.

Furthermore professor took a box of sand and spread into the jar … Of course, the sand was closing everything. Professor once again asked if the jar was full …. Paramurid unanimously said, “Yes” …
Professor and brewing two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. Paramurid laugh ….

“Now,” said the professor as the laughter subsided, “I want you to understand that this jar represents your life.”
“Golf balls are the important things – God, family, children, health, friends and companions”
“If all things lost and only they, his life is still full.”
“The stones of coral is everything else, like work, home and car.”
“Sand is anything else – things that are trivial.”
“When you first time enter into a jar of sand,” continued the professor, “So do not be left room for coral stones or for golf balls ..

The same thing will happen in your life.”
“If you spend energy on things that are trivial, you will not have room for things that are important to you.”
“So …”
“Give attention to things that are critical to your happiness.”
“Play with your children.”
“Take time for health checkups.”
“Invite your partner to go out to dinner”
“There’s always time to clean house and fix the furniture.”
“Pay attention to the first golf balls – things that really matter. Set your priorities. Just the last, take care of his sand.”
One student raised his hand and asked, “Coffee represents what?”
Professor smiled
“I’m glad you asked.”
“That’s to show you, even if your life was already so full, remain always available place for a cup of coffee with friends …”

Faith Like Potatoes

Abraham Ronny Setiawan — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 08:31:59 +0000

Where there is love

there is hope

Where there is trust

there is peace

and

Where there is faith

there is growth

Never Give Up

Abraham Ronny Setiawan — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 08:13:25 +0000

We sometimes quit even before we start. We don’t think we are strong enough sometimes or it is just simply impossible. But we have to endure it for in the end it is worth it. We need to give our the best.

3 Step Formula for Creative Success

Abraham Ronny Setiawan — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 13:42:00 +0000

Here is a great video that outlines 3 steps for creative success. It was produced by Bob Baker of Music Promotion Blog and is directed towards musicians, artists, writers and actors. The principles are simple.

These principles are simply: Be, Do, Have.

You Must FORGE ahead

Abraham Ronny Setiawan — Sun, 28 Feb 2010 13:32:03 +0000

To recover your dreams, you must forge ahead. You must defeat whatever resistance you’ve experienced up to now and decide you must see again and dream again. That is the one step you must do for yourself and it is the biggest gift you can give to yourself. There are many things around you that can assist with you that defeating resistance to dreaming and taking action towards your dreams. This blog a resource, encouragement from life long friends, your pastor, your spouse or other types of support resources but you and you alone have to take that encouragement into your heart and mind and ignite once again those previous dreams in your heart and reach towards your future once more. And you can do it. One small step leads to the next.

A step in this discussion is any decision and action you take that moves you out of feeling stuck and discouraged and into creating positive momentum and motivation for your long term success. What you really want to do is a establish a small series of “wins”, accomplishments or completed tasks which lift your spirit regularly and renews your will to win and to get it going.

To “forge ahead” means to move forward gradually and steadily. And that is what we want to do. As much as we may feel rushed on all sides these days by the pressures of life, take your renewal and recovery gradually and steadily. Temper your success and motivation with clear, specific actions with reasonable expectations for yourself and about your progress and outcomes.

You don’t want to defeat yourself before you get started. So here’s how our acronym breaks out: F-O-R-G-E

F = “Forget the Past”

0 = “Opportunity Abounds”

R = “Refocus Your Efforts and Energy”

G = “Getting Starts with Getting it Going”

E = “Experience Renewal of Mind, Body and Spirit”

Here’s our acronym as a statement we can repeat to ourselves to help us refocus our thoughts and take positive actions each day:

I “Forget The Past” because “Opportunity Abounds” anew each day. Therefore, I “Refocus My Efforts and My Energy” towards “Getting It Going” and “Experiencing Renewal in Mind, Body and Spirit”.

5 RULES FOR MASTERING LEADERSHIP

Abraham Ronny Setiawan — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 10:12:04 +0000

There are countless opinions on how to be an effective leader, but it’s important to not forget the basics. Here are five rules for mastering the fundamentals of leadership:

Leadership

1. Shape the future. Articulate where your company or division is going and be sure everyone around you understands the direction.

2. Make things happen. Once you know where you’re headed, focus on the how. Again, be sure all of your people know what it takes to execute.

3. Engage today’s talent. Make the most of your people; engage and inspire them to do their best.

4. Build tomorrow’s talent. Find and build the talent you need for future success.

5. Invest in yourself. You can never be a perfect leader; find ways to continually build your skills and become better.

Source : Harvard Business Review